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[Stingray 9,441]

I'm at a crossroad in my life. It's time to let go of everything, my shame, my anger, my hatred, my sorrow. Till now I've been all of those things and not much else, my negativity defined my existence. I need guidance though, I'm not strong enough to do everything on my home, I need to something I've never done; ask for help. I look back at my life and realise I've done many things I'm not proud of, yet I struggle to recall the good I've given to the world, I've only taken. I must accept this as a fact, but I should not allow it to bring me shame. I can not change the past but I can control my future and that's what counts. I must accept my place in the grand scheme of life, let go of everything that ties me down.

Well, at 24, you are really just starting up. Take it one step at a time. Look at improving yourself as climbing a ladder where you start at the easiest, lowest sports and slowly climb up.

Sir! Good luck!

Ps: that breakfast could be the cause though :-)

[Kieran. 6,317]

I'm at a crossroad in my life. It's time to let go of everything, my shame, my anger, my hatred, my sorrow. Till now I've been all of those things and not much else, my negativity defined my existence. I need guidance though, I'm not strong enough to do everything on my home, I need to something I've never done; ask for help. I look back at my life and realise I've done many things I'm not proud of, yet I struggle to recall the good I've given to the world, I've only taken. I must accept this as a fact, but I should not allow it to bring me shame. I can not change the past but I can control my future and that's what counts. I must accept my place in the grand scheme of life, let go of everything that ties me down.

You've shown great courage and strength admitting this to yourself and that's the first step towards turning your life around. Good luck.

[SinineUltra 1,170]

I'm at a crossroad in my life. It's time to let go of everything, my shame, my anger, my hatred, my sorrow. Till now I've been all of those things and not much else, my negativity defined my existence. I need guidance though, I'm not strong enough to do everything on my home, I need to something I've never done; ask for help. I look back at my life and realise I've done many things I'm not proud of, yet I struggle to recall the good I've given to the world, I've only taken. I must accept this as a fact, but I should not allow it to bring me shame. I can not change the past but I can control my future and that's what counts. I must accept my place in the grand scheme of life, let go of everything that ties me down.

In theory it is pretty straight forward - look at yourself and see what you are unhappy about - try to change that step by step. Also do give something back to the community you can do some volunteer work (in hospital, animal shelters etc) or simply start to regularly donate blood - gives you stimulus to stay healthy and constant thought that you've done something that WILL save someone's life. Start to train, see old friends etc. Plus 24 is just a beginning of something great - remember that.

[Santiago. 1,500]

I'm at a crossroad in my life. It's time to let go of everything, my shame, my anger, my hatred, my sorrow. Till now I've been all of those things and not much else, my negativity defined my existence. I need guidance though, I'm not strong enough to do everything on my home, I need to something I've never done; ask for help. I look back at my life and realise I've done many things I'm not proud of, yet I struggle to recall the good I've given to the world, I've only taken. I must accept this as a fact, but I should not allow it to bring me shame. I can not change the past but I can control my future and that's what counts. I must accept my place in the grand scheme of life, let go of everything that ties me down.

Any family members you can talk to for support or close friends?

[Guest FullEnglishBreakfast]

It all really occurred to me a few days ago. I wasn't helping myself, I was just escaping with alcohol and drugs. I wasn't even enjoying them, I didn't like how I acted or felt when in that state. I took a long hard look at myself and how I got here. I've been looking at my life in an entirely selfish way and I aim to no longer do that. A lot of bad things have happened in my life, but I was just looking at how they affected me and not realising that the same thing happened to those I care about. I'm tired of pity and self deprecation.

[Guest FullEnglishBreakfast]

In theory it is pretty straight forward - look at yourself and see what you are unhappy about - try to change that step by step. Also do give something back to the community you can do some volunteer work (in hospital, animal shelters etc) or simply start to regularly donate blood - gives you stimulus to stay healthy and constant thought that you've done something that WILL save someone's life. Start to train, see old friends etc. Plus 24 is just a beginning of something great - remember that.

Of course it's a simple thing to say. But I know there is a lot of hardwork to do. First thing I'm doing is changing my lifestyle, no more smoking, drinking and other disgusting things. They are not for me.

Any family members you can talk to for support or close friends?

Maybe not my family, they don't take me seriously. Besides they are too overbearing and agressive, they won't try to support me they'll try to do everything for me. I need help not someone to do my work for me. My firends on the otherhand could help, but they are the negative sort, that will just scoff at my ambitions.

[Kieran. 6,317]

Shoot me a PM if you ever feel the need to talk to someone.

[NishC300 1,865]

It all really occurred to me a few days ago. I wasn't helping myself, I was just escaping with alcohol and drugs. I wasn't even enjoying them, I didn't like how I acted or felt when in that state. I took a long hard look at myself and how I got here. I've been looking at my life in an entirely selfish way and I aim to no longer do that. A lot of bad things have happened in my life, but I was just looking at how they affected me and not realising that the same thing happened to those I care about. I'm tired of pity and self deprecation.

admitting your mistakes is one of the first thing when moving forward! your past is what has happened and u must forget about it and not repeat your errors. The good thing is u have the wonderful ability to make your future gr8! Keep Calm and Carry On!

(U've had an eventful first day here)

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[NishC300 1,865]

Things r getting worse. Shops r not accepting card anymore! U have to give everything in cash!

[Guest FullEnglishBreakfast]

Can I trust this website? I wish to buy some novels.

http://www.bookdepository.com/

[Kieran. 6,317]

Can I trust this website? I wish to buy some novels.

http://www.bookdepository.com/

http://www.betterworldbooks.com/

I'd recommend that one. You can get a lot of used books really cheap (under $5) and the shipping is free.

[NishC300 1,865]

Apparently ppl r now only buying necessities form SuperMarkets.

Things r getting scarier and scarier every minute.

[Guest FullEnglishBreakfast]

http://www.betterworldbooks.com/

I'd recommend that one. You can get a lot of used books really cheap (under $5) and the shipping is free.

Does it do PayPal?

[Kieran. 6,317]

Does it do PayPal?

Yes.

[Guest FullEnglishBreakfast]

Yes.

Cheers, fella. You've been a great help.