How Are You Feeling?

[manpe 10,861]

classic, all the emotion talk and random excuses like big bills, especially since it all "came out of the blue" like a sudden desperate defence reaction.... I actually think she might be having second thoughts. It's my basic opinion, she could be telling the truth.. but the fact that she said she isn't certain anymore shows that she has her doubts as well. A quick question: How are you planning to keep this relationship healthy? Internet and all the technological options of communication are nice, but it won't replace real life.. would you both have resources to meet regularly? What's regular for you, you guys have to decide... Some are satisfied seeing over a couple of months, some only weeks.

Seeing that a mere phone bill can be a setback, it doesn't look good, as those obstacles will probably arise in the future also. The main thing you two must do is talk, discuss and talk some more.. freely, openly and trustingly - that is the only way for progress in those situations. The worst thing possible is to hide your thoughts and feelings.

[warnie_666 1,081]

angry and low.

[termninja 5,290]

I don't know what I'm feeling at the moment this whole Linda situation for me has got me confused and dumfounded!

This time last month, she was telling me about coming to London for definate at the beginning of November so she could meet me, but now, it seems like that can't happen because she has so much heavy expenses to pay over in Stockholm such as her phone bill, and her rent she's paying while she's staying over in an appartment (she's studying environmental science at uni).. now she's telling me that everything between us is just so hard and difficult, despite me telling her that I can just go over there to see her! But right now, Linda doesn't even know what she wants. According to her, she's still trying to figure that out

gaah! Stupid feelings

Dude, you live in London! Loads and loads of chicks there! Go for it! Distance relationships are pain in the ass, trust me.

[DONI. 1,291]

Im feeling bad today.

[termninja 5,290]

I'm pumped up, it's time for teh GYM! YEAH!

[BlueLion. 21,491]

Tired, but enjoying my day off uni.

Mentally and physically exhausted.

Tired again, seemingly par for the course.

[Laylabelle 9,351]

Blehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh damn hangover!

[OReillyD36 311]

Wet!!!! The east coast of Ireland is flooding :mellow:

[BluesChick 1,260]

I see what you mean, but the truth of the matter is, my feelings for her are massive right now... we've been talking for a year and 7 months on skype and we both feel that the only way to advance is to meet up.. but the problem lies with the fact that Linda can't decide what she wants, and that she's just generally confused about everything. The strange thing, is that all this literally came out of the blue! Everything seemed to be going well... we were looking forward to next month, until she told me about a huge phone bill, which dented her chances of coming to London to see me, and since then, it's been panic stations

Chris, my guess is that she is nervous about meeting you in person. It is one thing to talk to someone (even via skype) and a whole different thing to actually meeting them. I do agree with the guys, long distance relationships are so very hard. I know a few people who have made them work, but they have to both put in a lot of time and energy to make it happen. I wish you the best of luck!

I am tired and mentally drained!

[Madmax 9,219]

Long distance didn't work for me. India - US. Can you imagine lol.

[kwylino 329]

Ive got a long distance one myself [>:3] and which ill hopefully have work. meeting her around march or somewhere like that. just keep riding it and as ive been told. a good relationship NEVER is problem free so *shrugs*

[Steve 10,227]

Chris i did distance also for a while. I met a girl from Canada when i was in Europe and i can tell you its the hardest thing i have ever done. I was in love with this girl and the only reason it ended was because of the distance. Unless one of you are planning on moving for each other its not worth the time because it will just end up in heart break. I can tell you that from my own experience anyway.

I am not saying this to be a jerk or anything. If i could be with this girl i would be no doubt but it just got to hard and was too much strain on both of us, but i wish you the best mate.

[warnie_666 1,081]

Long distance didn't work for me. India - US. Can you imagine lol.

Me neither with gf of 5 yrs

[warnie_666 1,081]

If I was in London I'd hit the bars and chat up girls and find one for myself. It's trial and error and you never know you might just meet the girl of your dreams.

Believe me. I never believed in love at first sight and I met this eastern european chick at a club who just knocked me out with her looks. I chatted with her and she turned out to be a man u fan in England and a barca fan overall( glory hunter? Yea that's what I thought). We hit it off cus we have so many things in common like soccer, and talking politics. We have been on a few dates and let's see how it goes in future.

[chrismada9 1,948]

Chris, my guess is that she is nervous about meeting you in person. It is one thing to talk to someone (even via skype) and a whole different thing to actually meeting them.

You've pretty much got it spot on there!

[Santiago 15]

Folks, these distant relationships are so hard to keep, if you can keep for much time, you're a hero! Everything is more difficult if you are far away. Most of the couple problems can't be solved with a kiss or a hug, but, at least, forgotten for a couple of hours.

[warnie_666 1,081]

Fucking knackered!!

Note: playing soccer after two years.

Joined a soccer league for winter. Thought I can get some match practice by playing some practice game. I generally run 6 miles on treadmill and thought my fitness level should be good.

15 mins into the game I was on my haunches gasping for breath while my eart was pounding so hard I thought I would have an heart attack.

It was 30 mins each half. By the time the game was over I barely managed to walk back to my car.

Today my thighs, and calfs and heels are all hurting real bad

[Laylabelle 9,351]

Kinda bleh after a long week but drove to work in the daylight today first time ever kinda awwwwwwww..week of half 7s starts kinda ahh but hey roll pay day!!