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[Dion 2,476]

They were awesome !! I trained them in communication skills. Only the girl was in anger management ..... She yelled at me for more then 10 minutes non-stop. Wtf!

What do you mean by trainning communication skills?

I did some therapy group years ago and the anger release exercise has always been my favourite.

[Amblève. 4,995]

The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people.

http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/

[Amblève. 4,995]

Does anyone know any great punk bands?

What kinda punk?

[Dion 2,476]

http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/

Narcissists tend to be arrogant and brag about their achievements and stuff. Even if on the inside they may not be confident, it would appear to others as if they were. Or so I guess. @Stingray can provide a better insight on this.

[Spike 12,049]

The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people.

Oh yes, people can be very narcissistic without having self-confidence. The narcissist is a person preoccupied with themselves and dellusions of granduer and power. They can lie to themselves deluding themselves into believing they are more important, smarter, more attractive then they are. I think you mixing up aspects of Histrionic with Narcisim. A Histrionic person is the type to brag and be arrogant for attention to reinforce their self image, whereas the narcissist just lies to themselves to reinforce their self image.

[Spike 12,049]

What kinda punk?

Punk that I haven't heard.

[Dion 2,476]

Oh yes, people can be very narcissistic without having self-confidence. The narcissist is a person preoccupied with themselves and dellusions of granduer and power. They can lie to themselves deluding themselves into believing they are more important, smarter, more attractive then they are. I think you mixing up aspects of Histrionic with Narcisim. A Histrionic person is the type to brag and be arrogant for attention to reinforce their self image, whereas the narcissist just lies to themselves to reinforce their self image.

But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be.

[Spike 12,049]

But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be.

Fucks me. I only came into this conversation halfway through it...

[Amblève. 4,995]

Punk that I haven't heard.

That's helping a lot...

What about the hardcore punk band Counterparts? Ever heard of them?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouyuFIYuopQ

[Amblève. 4,995]

But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be.

But what's gonna happen if you get into a relationship with such a person? He/She won't be able to pretend to be something he/she isn't.

[Spike 12,049]

That's helping a lot...

What about the hardcore punk band Counterparts? Ever heard of them?

Outside of Refused I'm not a big fan of hardcore. I like bands like Bad Religion and NOFX.

[Dion 2,476]

But what's gonna happen if you get into a relationship with such a person? He/She won't be able to pretend to be something he/she isn't.

That's why mantaining a relationship would be the tough part. But from my experience, it is harder to make a woman be attracted to you than to make them love you afterwards. Once you're really attracted to a person, even his flaws become somewhat charming. A lot of them would be thrilled to try to help you become a better person. I don't know why this happens but women love to change us and feel like they made us become better individuals

[Amblève. 4,995]

Outside of Refused I'm not a big fan of hardcore. I like bands like Bad Religion and NOFX.

Maybe Minor Threat and Authority Zero?

[Spike 12,049]

Maybe Minor Threat and Authority Zero?

Never really liked Minor Threat, I've always been of the opinion that Fugazi is superior in every way.

Ah, I'll just listen to Milo Goes To College for the 100000000 time.

[Liquidator 5,176]

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Was at a party with some friends last night and a girl I like and may be dating when my exams next month apparently 'is a slut', 'doesn't like me in the same way I like her', and 'isn't worth my effort because she won't want a relationship because she sleeps with everyone'. Don't know if its true or not but that's what my/her friends were telling me last night.

Meh she's a man u fan anyway. Thanks for your concern btw

[CHOULO19 24,332]

Punk that I haven't heard.

Maybe Minor Threat and Authority Zero?

What happened to the punk thread? Shame it died down, was really enjoying it.

[Spike 12,049]

What happened to the punk thread? Shame it died down, was really enjoying it.

Then revive it.

[Spike 12,049]

Was at a party with some friends last night and a girl I like and may be dating when my exams next month apparently 'is a slut', 'doesn't like me in the same way I like her', and 'isn't worth my effort because she won't want a relationship because she sleeps with everyone'. Don't know if its true or not but that's what my/her friends were telling me last night.

Meh she's a man u fan anyway. Thanks for your concern btw

You'll be right cunty. You should hear about some of my stories concerning women. Rapha will confirm that the hilarity that is my love life is like a bad teenager movie.