No such thing as the friend zone, busta. Either you are relationship material or you aren't. The thing about women you must appriciate is that unlike men they actually don't have a set standard for what they find 'attractive'. Some women are literally attracted to husky men, some are attracted to twigs, it varies incredibly. Their definition of 'beauty' is far more eclectic than men's. There are women out their that like skinny blond boys that look like they are ten but the women you fancy obviously don't like that.