kwylino 329 Posted August 11, 2011 Author Share Posted August 11, 2011 a dear friend of mine,kinda like my kid brother, has been in a car crash and they`ve already taken one of his legs off. he is 23..loves clubbing ,handsome lad,good home,good job... all gone..he was in the passenger seat and some bigger vehicle went into his side of the car..i don`t know the whole details yet. i should also state that it was only the last couple of years he has had that "good life "...he has crawled through his own personal private hell several times.i cannot think about God or anything like that, without getting tangled up and angry with it all..Be there for your bud like you were for me *hug*Send my condolancesBe strong for him and his recovery shall be less painful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duppy Conqueror 1,543 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 thanks for the thoughts and support Lum,Blueschick,BlueLion,Kez and my favourite alien boy..i can`t get in to see him at the moment, he remains in a critical condition but they have atleast managed to stabilize him for now so that`s something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluesChick 1,260 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 That's good news I hope his condition continues to improve and with good friends like you around him, he will recover.Hang in there!! ((Hugs))I am sleepy today, it was a rainy day and I really just wanted to curl up in a big chair with a good book! Unfortunately, I have to go to a business dinner with my husband! Joy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueLion. 21,491 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Achy, I forgot to stretch off after playing football today. I'll be stiff in the morning! *awaits euphemisms* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmax 9,219 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 thanks for the thoughts and support Lum,Blueschick,BlueLion,Kez and my favourite alien boy.. i can`t get in to see him at the moment, he remains in a critical condition but they have atleast managed to stabilize him for now so that`s something.Thoughts go out to him and you mate. Stay strong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zolayes 14,489 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 was going to make a glib joke about cricket ..until I saw posts from above ,,,shows again we are a compassionate caring forum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duppy Conqueror 1,543 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 was going to make a glib joke about cricket ..until I saw posts from above ,,,shows again we are a compassionate caring forumyeah damn right spot on!out of all the sports forums i`ve been on ,i`ve never come across so many decent human beings. that was apparent from my first couple of weeks on here. usually they are full of purely "laddish" bravado but we can have a good conversation about the football,have a laugh and when we need them we get a hug too..sometimes all in the same day.funnily enough ,about half an hour ago somenoe was telling me they feel like humanity is dying..but then i told her i found some last year in probably the least likely place...a football fans forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ollie 4,400 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 a dear friend of mine,kinda like my kid brother, has been in a car crash and they`ve already taken one of his legs off. he is 23..loves clubbing ,handsome lad,good home,good job... all gone..he was in the passenger seat and some bigger vehicle went into his side of the car..i don`t know the whole details yet. i should also state that it was only the last couple of years he has had that "good life "...he has crawled through his own personal private hell several times.i cannot think about God or anything like that, without getting tangled up and angry with it all..That's terrible, i just hope that he can enjoy some more happy times in his life because this kind of thing is tragic, unfair and unavoidable and it can happen to absolutely anyone. Sometimes you have to just sit down and think how fucking lucky you are because if this happened to you, you would give anything to be back in the position you are now. My condolences are with him. Thinking about god will just make you angry, at the end of the day whether you are religious or not, this is about a vehicle going into the side of a car which only the driver of that vehicle can answer for. He did it, not god or any other 'higher power'. This stuff happens a lot in the world and will continue to happen and i just hope none of my family or friends get involved because it's heartbreaking. Lives and families can get ruined and for what? some guy driving like a cunt which is no fault of the person who gets injured. Anyway, sorry to hear it. How am i feeling atm..... bit drunk lol maybe my rant shows that a bit but hearing this makes me a bit pissed off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Domino- 116 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 In very good mood, the season finally starts, it makes me smile wide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusek 2,031 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 NFL Preseason and of course the start of EPL season make me feel so good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James 5,331 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Feeling awful, possibly the worst day of my life. One of sisters twins died, had the funeral this afternoon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kwylino 329 Posted August 12, 2011 Author Share Posted August 12, 2011 Feeling awful, possibly the worst day of my life. One of sisters twins died, had the funeral this afternoon. My condolances bud. just take your time and like with Blewdrew be strong for your sister. being the iron for your sister will help them feel better. dont worry bout us jim youve been here for TC but well. we should return the favour and be there for you if needs be. just you know what to do man *pats shoulder* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismada9 1,948 Posted August 12, 2011 Share Posted August 12, 2011 Feeling awful, possibly the worst day of my life. One of sisters twins died, had the funeral this afternoon. My condolences too Jim! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ollie 4,400 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Sorry to hear that Jim, hope the send off was nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kez 2,727 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Sorry to hear that Jim that's heartbreaking news. Hope you & your sister are okay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluesChick 1,260 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 My condolences, Jim. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Duppy Conqueror 1,543 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Feeling awful, possibly the worst day of my life. One of sisters twins died, had the funeral this afternoon. *hugs* Jim..we here if you wanna let some out.this is not a pain that will ease quickly but it will come in time..let those tears flow man,don`t fight them..it`s better in the long run if you let things out now or atleast soon as poss..it must have been hard for you to see your sis go through this too.love to all the familydon`t know if you knew but i lost my son when he was a toddler ..so can kinda relate to the pain man. i hope you guys can face grief together i guess you`ve been trying to be strong for your sis and the rest of the family today...take some time out for yourself too mate.deepest sympathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ray. 217 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Feeling awful, possibly the worst day of my life. One of sisters twins died, had the funeral this afternoon. I'm sorry to hear that Jim, deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madmax 9,219 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Sorry to hear that Jimbo. Hang in there for your sis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laylabelle 9,536 Posted August 13, 2011 Share Posted August 13, 2011 Ah shit sorry to hear that deepest sympthy for you and your family xxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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