bushman 2,043 Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 http://www.reuters.com/article/2013/03/28/us-russia-military-exercises-idUSBRE92R0A520130328Speaking about depression, see above.I assume, Putin is going to withdraw some of his money from Cyprus soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manpe 10,861 Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 @dumps, so how did it go with the tutor? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumps 284 Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 @dumps, so how did it go with the tutor? yeah it was good. all friendly chat. she wasnt angry like her comments were. as soon as i walked in she was all "oh hey, hope you werent frightened by all the comments" to which i replied "I cried myself to sleep" that got a laugh and it was all jokes and games from there onwards.got some good info. it was a success. got a fucking tit load of work to do though and i dont know how im going to find the motivation to do it >.< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 Holy shit, reading this is just like reading about myself. But since every fifth person is highly sensitive, then I suppose it's normal.I've been unemployed for a looong time now because I can't handle being in foreign environment around strangers. I get anxious and scared. Once I literally ran away from a test day. This really sucks because I can't live like that. When I think about this situation I feel totally helpless. At the same time I am convinced there is nothing wrong with me and I'm making it all up in my head as an excuse to being just plain lazy.Hey Manpe. There are a lot of different schools of psychologists out there. Unfortunately there is a lot of non evidence based therapy going on as well (eg psychoanalysis). If I hear your - though very limited - explanation, I think a good cognitive behavioral psychologist is what would help you (they use evidence based protocols that work wonderson anxiety). Btw, the succes rate for dealing with anxiety like that is 80 % on latest studies. Just some thoughts for you, my friend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manpe 10,861 Posted March 28, 2013 Share Posted March 28, 2013 Hey Manpe. There are a lot of different schools of psychologists out there. Unfortunately there is a lot of non evidence based therapy going on as well (eg psychoanalysis). If I hear your - though very limited - explanation, I think a good cognitive behavioral psychologist is what would help you (they use evidence based protocols that work wonderson anxiety). Btw, the succes rate for dealing with anxiety like that is 80 % on latest studies.Just some thoughts for you, my friend!Can you be more specific about this cognitive whatever. Like, bring concrete examples what a psychologist would do. What are the steps and bring an example to every step, if you can. I've thought a million times what a psychologist could tell/do to me, and I can't imagine any of it working. Yeah you use those fancy words like cognitive behavioral therapy and evidence based protocols and whatnot, but in essence everything comes down to talking and advising, doesn't it? Which is what they all do I presume.My first encounter with a psychiatrist (not a psychologist, I know, but still) was in February at the army medical evaluation procedure. It was my first contact with one and I sort of was looking forward to it to get an impression what it would be like, since you know, I wouldn't go voluntarily. Anyway, his main advice to me was to start eating in a soup kitchen. Like what the actual fuck? In that instant I decided he was an idiot. He did have some point though - eating in a soup kitchen would save me money, which would allow me to buy more healthy food, which would improve my mood. Then he advised me to move more, go outside more, eat better, find a job. So basically he did fuck all. I know it wasn't his job to start helping me, he only needed to assess whether I had any loose screws or not, but this visit still left a bad taste in my mouth. In a couple of minutes he couldn't even remember who I was anymore.So yes, I would very much be interested in how they work. I don't care about this general bullshit like "they do tests and then assemble a plan according to your needs and bla bla", it says nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted March 29, 2013 Share Posted March 29, 2013 Can you be more specific about this cognitive whatever. Like, bring concrete examples what a psychologist would do. What are the steps and bring an example to every step, if you can. I've thought a million times what a psychologist could tell/do to me, and I can't imagine any of it working. Yeah you use those fancy words like cognitive behavioral therapy and evidence based protocols and whatnot, but in essence everything comes down to talking and advising, doesn't it? Which is what they all do I presume.My first encounter with a psychiatrist (not a psychologist, I know, but still) was in February at the army medical evaluation procedure. It was my first contact with one and I sort of was looking forward to it to get an impression what it would be like, since you know, I wouldn't go voluntarily. Anyway, his main advice to me was to start eating in a soup kitchen. Like what the actual fuck? In that instant I decided he was an idiot. He did have some point though - eating in a soup kitchen would save me money, which would allow me to buy more healthy food, which would improve my mood. Then he advised me to move more, go outside more, eat better, find a job. So basically he did fuck all. I know it wasn't his job to start helping me, he only needed to assess whether I had any loose screws or not, but this visit still left a bad taste in my mouth. In a couple of minutes he couldn't even remember who I was anymore.So yes, I would very much be interested in how they work. I don't care about this general bullshit like "they do tests and then assemble a plan according to your needs and bla bla", it says nothing.Ok! I will explain later when I get home, ok? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manpe 10,861 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Is it possible for a human to commit voluntary suicide without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Is it possible for a human to commit voluntary suicide without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder?Yep, as far as I know in Switzerland, in the Dignitas hospital. You have to suffer from a incurable disease though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Is it possible for a human to commit voluntary suicide without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder?Yes, It is legal here and it happens. In serious pain and incurable, terminal condition. It gets judged by multiple doctors, an ethical committee, family and of course the person itself (which is the main goal - autonomy of an individual in such a crucial stage of life). Palliative sedation, is more and more considered to be the pure choice of a doctor governed regularly by economical factors- without consent from a patient - which we (belgium) deem more and more unethical. So yes - and it is not at all odd actually. Humane - very much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manpe 10,861 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Yep, as far as I know in Switzerland, in the Dignitas hospital. You have to suffer from a incurable disease though.Yes, It is legal here and it happens. In serious pain and incurable, terminal condition. It gets judged by multiple doctors, an ethical committee, family and of course the person itself (which is the main goal - autonomy of an individual in such a crucial stage of life). Palliative sedation, is more and more considered to be the pure choice of a doctor governed regularly by economical factors- without consent from a patient - which we (belgium) deem more and more unethical. So yes - and it is not at all odd actually. Humane - very much. I'm not talking about euthanasia, I'm asking whether a person is capable of committing suicide without actually suffering from anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 I'm not talking about euthanasia, I'm asking whether a person is capable of committing suicide without actually suffering from anything.And how would you call someone that chooses to die like that: you said without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder. not without suffering from anythingBig difference, dude. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
manpe 10,861 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 And how would you call someone that chooses to die like that: you said without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder. not without suffering from anythingBig difference, dude. Let's put it this way - if the person is completely healthy physically and mentally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumps 284 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 Let's put it this way - if the person is completely healthy physically and mentally.depends on whos defining healthy or mentally ill.i would say that personally you would have to be a sufferer of a mental illness to commit suicide simply because it goes against natural and logical instincts.but who is to say what's normal? we all have a different perception of what's normal and what's not.so my answer is purely based on my views. some people may think the logical answer is suicide. what's the point in having something you cant keep? i.e. why live when you're going to die anyway. deep man, real deep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yuvala 2,167 Posted May 13, 2013 Share Posted May 13, 2013 respect Steve.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BluesChick 1,260 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 I'm not talking about euthanasia, I'm asking whether a person is capable of committing suicide without actually suffering from anything.[/qoute] The only thing I can think of is someone who is attention seeking (ie has borderline personality disorder, those folks that cut themselves with no serious intent to kill themselves]. They aren't depressed they just desperately want someone to "see" them and often their attempts escalate because those around them stop paying attention to the little cuts. When I worked the suicide hot line the bulk of the people I spoke with fit this category, thankfully all they wanted was to talk so each night they'd call and talk to me for a while because they knew I'd not only listen but actually engage in the conversation. The other instance I can think of is someone who is trying to manipulate someone else and realizes threatening to kill themselves is the ultimate power over the other person. They are not sane necessarily but they take their manipulation past the point of no return. Of course Tom, could and will probably correct all that I just said. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk HD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yeboii 1,844 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Is it possible for a human to commit voluntary suicide without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder?Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strike 7,492 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 I'm not talking about euthanasia, I'm asking whether a person is capable of committing suicide without actually suffering from anything.you can't really say can you? Some volatile people may commit suicide without much hint of depression. For eg, there is a place near my hometown called 'Suicide Point' and as you might have guessed, it is a cliff which got it's name due to ugly incidents over the years. there have been lots of cases where people have committed suicide simply because opportunity has presented itself and I say that because the victim's family/friends had no idea about any depression in many of the cases. Ofcourse the families maybe lying or completely clueless but I knew a person in University who committed suicide there for no reason. He was fine having no depression problems on the surface. Probably some kind of problem like money or love may have instigated it but who can really say what one thinks before committing suicide? Sometimes there may be no reason to it and the victim just wants to get it over with on a whim? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 There were instances though: 1. eg Camus (philosopher) claimed that asking the question: why should i not commit suicide is the only fundamental philosophical question. Those guys back then were going on about the absurdity of life (existentialism it is called). 2. The romantic period (Goethe eg.) that , well, romanticised suicide and suffering. 3. Cults that commit suicide collectively (some a little more forced than others)These schools of thought had an impact an led to voluntary suicides. Of course ..... This was really pretty much mass hysteria and copycat behaviour ..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Ranting makes me feel better, so I'm going to do it.On another note, I took a nap this morning and woke up as a different person. I feel good, I feel great. Though on the other hand, my mother is worried about me and has booked an appointment with a psychologist. I can't wait to sit in a room to be probed and prodded and then diagnosed a paranoid-schizophrenic narcissistic bipolar type II anorexic psychotic young adult.I bet my left testicle I'll have to fill out those little questionnaires that try to determine if you are Bipolar or Depressed. The the results will say Bipolar, I'll be recommended to a GP that will say I have Bipolar and then to a Psychiatrist that will think I'm not, they will argue and the Psychiatrist will win. I'll then be put on meds that a gives me acne and transforms me into a zombie that gains weight fast.People will say it' for my own good, but I'll just be juggled around by a bunch of professionals that are arguing why I'm a crazy bastard and why I should be medicated for the good of the nation.Then after so much screwing around, I'll lose my shit at Uni or somewhere and put another students head through a computer screen because they accidentally nudged me. Then I'll be kicked out of Uni and fined or some bullshit. Then three years later the exact same thing will happen. People will forget about it all and think I'm a-ok, till the next time it happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CHOULO19 24,332 Posted May 14, 2013 Share Posted May 14, 2013 Is it possible for a human to commit voluntary suicide without suffering from depression or any other form of mental disorder?Do you mean legally or is your question "Are humans physically capable of committing suicide without a mental disorder"?I don't think that only people with mental disorder can commit suicide. If you have time to read, download this: http://www.suicidenote.info/It's a book in which a perfectly happy 35 year-old person with a bachelor in psychology attempts to explain why suicide is the only thing that makes sense. That is called nihilismBtw, I'm curious of what @Stingray makes of that. The arguments against Nihilism were never 'logical' but rather 'moral' or 'practical'. Personally, I can't really argue with much of what Michael (the 35yo) wrote.PS: If you are depressed or have any suicidal inclinations atm, DO NOT read that book. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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