Look, I used to loathe United with a passion, but one of my best mates is a United fan and he slowly swung me around to grudgingly respecting them, and even preferring them to most of the bigger teams in England. I didn't watch the 08/09 final, the pain of Ovrebo was still too much for me, I didn't watch any football after that up to the FA Cup final. In any case, by the time said friend had turned me around, it was deep in the 09/10 season when United didn't win anything of import. I don't appreciate being called a disgrace for preferring United to Arsenal, Liverpool, Tottenham, Man City; or the clubs from the continent like Juventus (sorry, Steve), Barcelona et al. Personal abuse is unnecessary, United are not a direct rival and many of their fans don't harbour an intense hatred for us when compared to the three clubs I mentioned earlier. Probably because they have been more successful than us. You'll still get the odd Red talking shit like "Plastic flag plastic club" but by and large they don't think as lowly of us as other fans. Take a look at Redcafe if you don't believe me, United fans are some of the most balanced fans in the world, that website is probably the best football forum in the world. I'm not denying that they're biased, I'm not denying that many if not most of them dislike us, but they are a much better club with much more intelligent fans than the rest of our 'rivals'.