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  On 26/05/2013 at 01:02, DJames said:

Why is it hard to understand the concept of NO. I tell you let's just be friends but you turn around and ask me to go on a date tomorrow. :doh: Nice doesn't work with guys?

It's not our fault, some girls will say no to keep us chasing them even though they want us as bad as we want them. Hence we never know when no is really "no" or just "chase me a bit so I can evaluate your interest in me".

Not that I'm saying I like this kind of situation.

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  On 26/05/2013 at 01:04, Dion said:

It's not our fault, some girls will say no to keep us chasing them even though they want us as bad as we want them. Hence we never know when no is really "no" or just "chase me a bit so I can evaluate your interest in me".

Not that I'm saying I like this kind of situation.

This is definitely not one of those times! I've given this dude too many chances and I'm tired of the bullshit associated with him so its best we part ways but he's not getting that

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  On 26/05/2013 at 01:09, DJames said:

This is definitely not one of those times! I've given this dude too many chances and I'm tired of the bullshit associated with him so its best we part ways but he's not getting that

Maybe you should really part ways completely and cut all contact. Let's be just friends bullshit usually doesn't work unless you two are the main stars of a sitcom and both of you still got contract for a few seasons.

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  On 26/05/2013 at 01:14, Dion said:

Maybe you should really part ways completely and cut all contact. Let's be just friends bullshit usually doesn't work unless you two are the main stars of a sitcom and both of you still got contract for a few seasons.

LOL!!

Yea well it's just my nice way of saying get lost. Plus I'm a really bad friend so it works out in the end. Idle facebook chat and nothing else until it eventually fizzles out....that's usually how guys exit my life (to never be seen again) :ph34r:

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  On 26/05/2013 at 01:22, DJames said:

LOL!!

Yea well it's just my nice way of saying get lost. Plus I'm a really bad friend so it works out in the end. Idle facebook chat and nothing else until it eventually fizzles out....that's usually how guys exit my life (to never be seen again) :ph34r:

Subtle and nice don't work with some guys. This guy sounds like he needs blunt and forceful and I am not sure that he will get it then. Flat out tell him you are interested in seeing other people and that you would prefer if he stop calling.

Be careful, the weirdly persistent ones can become the scary psycho ones. So, make sure he he starts sending anything creepy you keep copies and share them with someone you trust. Call me paranoid but it is best to keep evidence about weird/creepy behavior so that you can get help if you need it. Can't be to safe!

Before the guys go all crazy on me that piece of advice goes for you too!! There are psychos out there of both genders and you just don't know who they are because they are damn good at hiding it. I have a cousin, sister, and a SIL that ended up in abusive relationships because the guy was so darn good at hiding his true self until he had them isolated from their families. My sister and SIL were able to escape the relationship but my cousin was not and he eventually killed her. My SIL's ex stalked her for a year or so after their divorce.

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  On 26/05/2013 at 02:29, BluesChick said:

Subtle and nice don't work with some guys. This guy sounds like he needs blunt and forceful and I am not sure that he will get it then. Flat out tell him you are interested in seeing other people and that you would prefer if he stop calling.

Be careful, the weirdly persistent ones can become the scary psycho ones. So, make sure he he starts sending anything creepy you keep copies and share them with someone you trust. Call me paranoid but it is best to keep evidence about weird/creepy behavior so that you can get help if you need it. Can't be to safe!

Before the guys go all crazy on me that piece of advice goes for you too!! There are psychos out there of both genders and you just don't know who they are because they are damn good at hiding it. I have a cousin, sister, and a SIL that ended up in abusive relationships because the guy was so darn good at hiding his true self until he had them isolated from their families. My sister and SIL were able to escape the relationship but my cousin was not and he eventually killed her. My SIL's ex stalked her for a year or so after their divorce.

Thanks @BluesChick for the advice! He got nice for now but I'm more than capable of delivering not nice. Having him not call is easy since he never really called in the first place this new generation with their addiction to texting and facebook messaging. My brother already knows about this guy in fact he didn't let me go on the first date without viewing the guy's facebook page, requesting his telephone number and full name and address :sweating:

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Few things make me angrier than poor internet access when I'm playing some online game. I'm on the verge of a mental breakdown/angry outburst.

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  On 26/05/2013 at 02:48, DJames said:
  On 26/05/2013 at 02:29, BluesChick said:

Subtle and nice don't work with some guys. This guy sounds like he needs blunt and forceful and I am not sure that he will get it then. Flat out tell him you are interested in seeing other people and that you would prefer if he stop calling.

Be careful, the weirdly persistent ones can become the scary psycho ones. So, make sure he he starts sending anything creepy you keep copies and share them with someone you trust. Call me paranoid but it is best to keep evidence about weird/creepy behavior so that you can get help if you need it. Can't be to safe!

Before the guys go all crazy on me that piece of advice goes for you too!! There are psychos out there of both genders and you just don't know who they are because they are damn good at hiding it. I have a cousin, sister, and a SIL that ended up in abusive relationships because the guy was so darn good at hiding his true self until he had them isolated from their families. My sister and SIL were able to escape the relationship but my cousin was not and he eventually killed her. My SIL's ex stalked her for a year or so after their divorce.

Thanks @BluesChick for the advice! He got nice for now but I'm more than capable of delivering not nice. Having him not call is easy since he never really called in the first place this new generation with their addiction to texting and facebook messaging. My brother already knows about this guy in fact he didn't let me go on the first date without viewing the guy's facebook page, requesting his telephone number and full name and address :sweating:

A protective big brother, I like him already :)

I would not respond to his texts or messages. He'll get the message hopefully!

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  On 26/05/2013 at 05:32, nachikethas said:

TC is becoming really toxic these days. The insult between us,towards managers and players is at its peak. Everyone played a part in it including me. But can we give it a rest.

That's always the case when the season ends. Not much to talk about and people resort to fights.

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  On 26/05/2013 at 09:12, CHOULO19 said:
  On 26/05/2013 at 05:32, nachikethas said:

TC is becoming really toxic these days. The insult between us,towards managers and players is at its peak. Everyone played a part in it including me. But can we give it a rest.

That's always the case when the season ends. Not much to talk about and people resort to fights.

Unfortunately, this is true.

I will be MIA for most of the summer because we will be visiting family so not sure when I can check in.

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That's always the case when the season ends. Not much to talk about and people resort to fights.

Seems to be the case on everyday ending with ' Y' also...

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