The Pub - Discuss Anything

[CHOULO19 24,332]

What I meant is: what makes a person unlovable?

Ask Ferdinand, or Yossi!

[whatthemata 249]

Those are the best kind. (Let's see if anyone recognizes this).

The Amazing Spider-Man!

[Amblève. 4,995]

What I meant is: what makes a person unlovable? I don't know if such a thing does exist. There are all kinds of people in the world, probably there is someone who would find you lovable.

I'm not really that wonderful and I'm no Brad Pitt, but I've always had some girls interested in me. If you go out there and interact with people you will find someone sooner or later.

Being an extreme narcissist or misanthrope maybe? I don't really know.

(Thought I'd throw one of my "It's-Saturday-afternoon-and-my-brain's-still-sleeping" thoughts in )

[Stingray 9,441]

You met brazilians before? How were they? I don't know if all of them have really intense anger, I know for sure my mom has. I usually date quieter girls, though.

They were awesome !! I trained them in communication skills. Only the girl was in anger management ..... She yelled at me for more then 10 minutes non-stop. Wtf!

[Spike 12,049]

Does anyone know any great punk bands?

[Dion 2,476]

Being an extreme narcissist or misanthrope maybe? I don't really know.

(Thought I'd throw one of my "It's-Saturday-afternoon-and-my-brain's-still-sleeping" thoughts in )

The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people.

[Dion 2,476]

They were awesome !! I trained them in communication skills. Only the girl was in anger management ..... She yelled at me for more then 10 minutes non-stop. Wtf!

What do you mean by trainning communication skills?

I did some therapy group years ago and the anger release exercise has always been my favourite.

[Amblève. 4,995]

The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people.

http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/

[Amblève. 4,995]

Does anyone know any great punk bands?

What kinda punk?

[Dion 2,476]

http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/

Narcissists tend to be arrogant and brag about their achievements and stuff. Even if on the inside they may not be confident, it would appear to others as if they were. Or so I guess. @Stingray can provide a better insight on this.

[Spike 12,049]

The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people.

Oh yes, people can be very narcissistic without having self-confidence. The narcissist is a person preoccupied with themselves and dellusions of granduer and power. They can lie to themselves deluding themselves into believing they are more important, smarter, more attractive then they are. I think you mixing up aspects of Histrionic with Narcisim. A Histrionic person is the type to brag and be arrogant for attention to reinforce their self image, whereas the narcissist just lies to themselves to reinforce their self image.

[Spike 12,049]

What kinda punk?

Punk that I haven't heard.