🇧🇪 Eden Hazard

[bababoom 4,478]

As Justin has already alluded to, it actually shows a 'lack' of maturity..

It also shows a lack of class too, underage/young pregnancies are 'mostly' associated with the underbelly of society and the lower classes.

Wait, so because he has a baby and is getting married at the age of 21 means he lacks maturity and class... wow, you are an ignorant cunt.

[Tomo 21,751]

Fair play to Eden if he wants to take that route.

Im 21 like him and personally i don't plan to get married or have kids until i am at the very youngest 30 because i would miss the social life too much but everyone is different.

Right now im happy meeting mates and getting smashed three times a week, but as i said everyone is different.

[Justin_3d 1,140]

I got married at 21 and now that I'm 28 I have 3 kids my first was born when I was 22, I'm not chavey or underclass and I work my bollocks into the ground to keep my family fed clothed and watered, I private rent which when you include the council tax comes to over 4 figures a month, if you can afford it and are having kids for the right reasons who the fuck cares what age you have children at or what age you decide to get married at, its a personal choice whats right for one person isn't right for another.

I made my choices young and I'm a very proud dad of 3 who's been with his wife for over a ten years, 7 of them married, I have to work hard but wouldn't have it another way, if eden is mature enough to have made that choice for himself then fair play to him and I sincerely hope it works out well for him.

Yeah TX took it a bit far with the low class thing.

Nonetheless you being happy with everything in your life I got to ask, would you recommend young people to get married and have kids?

Or wait till they are older, study, get a good job and all that nonsense?

[Superblue 6,372]

I got married at 21 and now that I'm 28 I have 3 kids my first was born when I was 22, I'm not chavey or underclass and I work my bollocks into the ground to keep my family fed clothed and watered, I private rent which when you include the council tax comes to over 4 figures a month, if you can afford it and are having kids for the right reasons who the fuck cares what age you have children at or what age you decide to get married at, its a personal choice whats right for one person isn't right for another.

I made my choices young and I'm a very proud dad of 3 who's been with his wife for over a ten years, 7 of them married, I have to work hard but wouldn't have it another way, if eden is mature enough to have made that choice for himself then fair play to him and I sincerely hope it works out well for him.

Yep agree with this. My partner got pregnant because she had been ill for a couple of days and it messed around with her contraception. At the time she was 20 and I was 22, and we had our daughter nine months later and were married six months further on. A 'stigma' of under 23 is bollocks. We had been together since I was 18 and she was 16 and seven years on now we are still going strong. We have a mortgage for a three bed house and I'm a qualified accountant, so we are comfortable, certainly given the current climate.

I would say someone young who has been with their partner for a couple of years or so is much more mature then, say, a 30 year old who has been with their partner for 3 months and then gets her pregnant and rushes things. How does that show more maturity because they are an older age?!

Given the rise of one night stands, single parent families, etc I commend him. I would rather Chelsea players are going home to their young families every night than going our partying, and in turn giving the media chance to hound and bash them!

[Justin_3d 1,140]

Yep agree with this. My partner got pregnant because she had been ill for a couple of days and it messed around with her contraception. At the time she was 20 and I was 22, and we had our daughter nine months later and were married six months further on. A 'stigma' of under 23 is bollocks. We had been together since I was 18 and she was 16 and seven years on now we are still going strong. We have a mortgage for a three bed house and I'm a qualified accountant, so we are comfortable, certainly given the current climate.

I would say someone young who has been with their partner for a couple of years or so is much more mature then, say, a 30 year old who has been with their partner for 3 months and then gets her pregnant and rushes things. How does that show more maturity because they are an older age?!

Given the rise of one night stands, single parent families, etc I commend him. I would rather Chelsea players are going home to their young families every night than going our partying, and in turn giving the media chance to hound and bash them!

Stigma of under 23, because normally that is roughly the age you would be graduating college and starting work.

Since what I am referring to is low income family we can rule out wealthy folks like Mr. Hazard.

At 23 most average girls and guy are just barely getting on their feet.

So hence my question, would you recommend a young guy or girl to get married and have kids?

Or wait a bit, study, get a good job and all that good stuff before settling down?

Last point, about a 30 year old guy....you would assume that by around this age he should be a well independent guy that can provide for himself.

[Superblue 6,372]

Yeah TX took it a bit far with the low class thing.

Nonetheless you being happy with everything in your life I got to ask, would you recommend young people to get married and have kids?

Or wait till they are older, study, get a good job and all that nonsense?

Each individual and circumstance should be treated singularly. There isn't no right or wrong answer.

What I would say is that children change your life forever. I never realised or appreciated prior to my daughter being born the time, effort and responsibility involved. You will never enjoy the level of independence and sense of freedom that you perhaps did before. Having said that, I would do it all again because she is the most important thing in my life and worth it all.

[Justin_3d 1,140]

Each individual and circumstance should be treated singularly. There isn't no right or wrong answer.

What I would say is that children change your life forever. I never realised or appreciated prior to my daughter being born the time, effort and responsibility involved. You will never enjoy the level of independence and sense of freedom that you perhaps did before. Having said that, I would do it all again because she is the most important thing in my life and worth it all.

hmmmmm

So if you are the older brother of 3, would you be saying the same stuff to your younger brothers and sister to go ahead and get married?

Or wait a bit, go to school and such.

[Superblue 6,372]

Stigma of under 23, because normally that is roughly the age you would be graduating college and starting work.

Since what I am referring to is low income family we can rule out wealthy folks like Mr. Hazard.

At 23 most average girls and guy are just barely getting on their feet.

So hence my question, would you recommend a young guy or girl to get married and have kids?

Or wait a bit, study, get a good job and all that good stuff before settling down?

Last point, about a 30 year old guy....you would assume that by around this age he should be a well independent guy that can provide for himself.

I think circumstances in England are different to that in America too. Most university courses are 3 years so people finish at 21. A lot of people, including me, also finish school at either 16 or 18 and go down the apprenticeship route which means whichever profession they move into they are generally qualified in by the time they hit 20/21. As I said everybody's circumstances are different.

But I will refer back to and stand by my feeling that I would rather a Chelsea player be settled down and going home to his family at night, bed early, etc, than living a wild, partying lifestyle.

I have a sister 7 years younger than me and a brother 10 years younger than me. I would encourage them to follow the path that makes them happy but not rush into making life changing decisions.

[Spike 12,049]

I like Eden and I think he is going to be a success.

SWING THIS BACK ON TOPIC LADS

[Justin_3d 1,140]

I think circumstances in England are different to that in America too. Most university courses are 3 years so people finish at 21. A lot of people, including me, also finish school at either 16 or 18 and go down the apprenticeship route which means whichever profession they move into they are generally qualified in by the time they hit 20/21. As I said everybody's circumstances are different.

But I will refer back to and stand by my feeling that I would rather a Chelsea player be settled down and going home to his family at night, bed early, etc, than living a wild, partying lifestyle.

I have a sister 7 years younger than me and a brother 10 years younger than me. I would encourage them to follow the path that makes them happy but not rush into making life changing decisions.

That is the answer I get from parents, and guys and girls that got married at young age and have kids.

I know kids are greats, and they will die for them, but they always say that!

Experience speaks for a reason.

[Fhaarkas 39]

18-year-old adults are gonna be 18-year-old adults, 30-year-old kids are gonna be 30-year-old kids. And college is vastly overrated.

That said, look at this another joke of an "article" lawlz (not to be taken seriously)

http://bleacherreport.com/articles/1216667-eden-hazard-why-he-will-quickly-fade-at-chelsea-fc

[Justin_3d 1,140]

Yeah bleacherreport is not even worth visiting any more.

[Superblue 6,372]

That is the answer I get from parents, and guys and girls that got married at young age and have kids.

I know kids are greats, and they will die for them, but they always say that!

Experience speaks for a reason.

Ha ha thats why they say listen to your elders!

And that bleacher report article is utter wank! Hazard may take time to adjust but ultimately he has the tools to become one of the greatest ever at this football club.

[Kezza 1,965]

He's gonna be the premiers leagues little darling after this season.

And whoever said college/uni is overrated, well it isn't. I want to leave my country and go overseas, move to the UK preferably. Without my engineering degree, it would be a 100x harder to get a job there.

[Strike 7,489]

As Justin has already alluded to, it actually shows a 'lack' of maturity..

It also shows a lack of class too, underage/young pregnancies are 'mostly' associated with the underbelly of society and the lower classes.

to be fAir, she doesn't seem to be a bimbo. seems a proper matured woman. dont think hazard is bad on a personal level

relevant factor is his lack of english, malouda to be kept as translator?

[royg 96]

hmmm... well are we talking about personal life now? how about we talk about Cheryl Cole and the other WAGS?

IMO, its not our concern if he gets married at a young age or having a kid at an early age. Doesnt matter, his personal life doesnt reflects his maturity as a football player. He could be the Gandhi like person but he could still be immature as a football player. (Not at all cases like Balotelli and Barton)

[Jase 43,479]

to be fAir, she doesn't seem to be a bimbo. seems a proper matured woman. dont think hazard is bad on a personal level

relevant factor is his lack of english, malouda to be kept as translator?

Think Essien and Cech can speak French too.

[royg 96]

relevant factor is his lack of english, malouda to be kept as translator?

I was thinking of the same thing when most of our French speaking players are all gone (Anelka, Drogba, Kalou, Bosingwa (Yes the bossman knows french!)).

Only left are Kakuta (loaned) and Malouda. Highly waged interpreter indeed.

[samzilla 517]

That said, look at this another joke of an "article" lawlz (not to be taken seriously)

http://bleacherrepor...e-at-chelsea-fc

Cliffs: Hazard will fail because Chamakh is a useless twat.

[strong centreback 157]

Yeah TX took it a bit far with the low class thing.

Nonetheless you being happy with everything in your life I got to ask, would you recommend young people to get married and have kids?

Or wait till they are older, study, get a good job and all that nonsense?

Id say that if your in a loving relationship, have the means to provide for a family and thats what you and the misses want after careful consideration then go for it, why are you too young at 20 or 21 if its what you both want and can provide? its a big responsibility and one I don't think you should take on lightly but age shouldn't be a barrier.