Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Let's just say I lost sight of the bright light at the end of the tunnel. It's a lot of things: partly political, partly social, partly academic. Shit add up, man. In a transition? You know every change that is ultimately for the better has to go through the 'pool of discomfort'. First bad then better. reculer pour mieux sauter. I had so much of that, man. It is crucial, but time is a healer. CHOULO19 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CHOULO19 24,332 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Sweetie. It's okay to be lost sometimes - I'm kinda of lost about some things in my life now - it's okay not to have the answer, not to know what to do next. Go to that quiet place of yours - the one where you posted you reading the other day - and just relax. When time comes, when things are right, when they feel right, you'll know what to do.Just know that doing nothing isn't bad, isn't wrong, isn't frustrating. It's just a patience exercise because if you can't say what you want now about certain things, it may mean you could have whatever you decide to. Really think about it, not having to make decisions is okay. Not knowing what the future brings is okay, not knowing which path to take is okay because when times comes and you really have to choose, you will, until then, the bright side is the possibility of almost it all. The thrilling of being surprised - positively - and finding out things you had no idea.I'm sure it will happen to some of the questions you have in your pretty little head no anxiety.Wow, amazing how you completely hit the nail on the head there. You may not speak "male" but you obviously speak "Nour" very well I guess I do need a break from everything after a stressful year. I think I will go to the village this weekend to relax.Thank you, Barbara. I mean it. Stingray and Barbara 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Wow, amazing how you completely hit the nail on the head there. You may not speak "male" but you obviously speak "Nour" very well I guess I do need a break from everything after a stressful year. I think I will go to the village this weekend to relax.Thank you, Barbara. I mean it. you're welcome, sweetie. I meant every word as well CHOULO19 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Wow, amazing how you completely hit the nail on the head there. You may not speak "male" but you obviously speak "Nour" very well I guess I do need a break from everything after a stressful year. I think I will go to the village this weekend to relax.Thank you, Barbara. I mean it. Seriously .... come here to study.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CHOULO19 24,332 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 In a transition? You know every change that is ultimately for the better has to go through the 'pool of discomfort'. First bad then better. reculer pour mieux sauter. I had so much of that, man. It is crucial, but time is a healer. Yup, pretty much. And doesn't help much that I'm very much an introvert who doesn't know how to get his mind off stuff. I'm actually very surprised I'm actually writing all this on here. Usually I hate talking to the vast majority of people. Anyway, thanks for your concern, mate. Means a lot to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CHOULO19 24,332 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Seriously .... come here to study....I'm actually seriously considering it! France and Belgium are on the top of my list. But ultimately it's about who wants me not who I want. I still have give this a lot of thought this summer and look into all the options. Stingray 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Yup, pretty much. And doesn't help much that I'm very much an introvert who doesn't know how to get his mind off stuff. I'm actually very surprised I'm actually writing all this on here. Usually I hate talking to the vast majority of people. Anyway, thanks for your concern, mate. Means a lot to me. Well Nour. It is what i do now. I coach multinational CEO's with introvert issues. I love the way you have evolved (and i have seen that from the first reaction to a post of mine and now!!!!)You are a very, very, good guy. Barbara and CHOULO19 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 I'm actually seriously considering it! France and Belgium are on the top of my list. But ultimately it's about who wants me not who I want. I still have give this a lot of thought this summer and look into all the options. Give me a sign. I have friends in the university of ghent intercultural program. Ill call em ... make you have the direct line. no sweat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CHOULO19 24,332 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Give me a sign. I have friends in the university of ghent intercultural program. Ill call em ... make you have the direct line. no sweat. Thanks, Tom. I will after I do some more research on matter. Thanks for offering. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Thanks, Tom. I will after I do some more research on matter. Thanks for offering. No problem. a friend is a friend. CHOULO19 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 @ such a sneaky husband you are.I was saying yesterday that @Blue-in-me-Veins is the greatest guy here because he loves Rafa and you failed to mention you hate him and love Fed. So many lost cookie points. So many #tennisthread Azpinator and Blue-in-me-Veins 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 @ such a sneaky husband you are.I was saying yesterday that @Blue-in-me-Veins is the greatest guy here because he loves Rafa and you failed to mention you hate him and love Fed. So many lost cookie points. So many #tennisthreadyes yes ....another one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 yes yes ....another one. tk.gifactually I love differences... he was just sneaky. but I love differences... as long as I don't end up with a Manure fan, Ass fan or Milan fan, I can deal everything else. Even Rafa hate. But he lost cookie points I'm not into beating at all. It doesn't fit the image I like my men to keep. They don't get beaten up. Nope. Not. Azpinator 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 actually I love differences... he was just sneaky. but I love differences... as long as I don't end up with a Manure fan, Ass fan or Milan fan, I can deal everything else. Even Rafa hate. But he lost cookie points I'm not into beating at all. It doesn't fit the image I like my men to keep. They don't get beaten up. Nope. Not. I know. You are different Barbara 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 I know. You are differentI'm not sure what you mean, but I'd hit that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 I'm not sure what you mean, but I'd hit that It is a translation :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 It is a translation :-)come now, love, I'm really slow. I slept only 1h30 last night and I worked a whole day for the first time in nearly a year.Give me a break and be very didactic. The only thing I realized in that pic is that I wish I had her boobs.I really want to have her boobs. Can I have her boobs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 No the boobs are irrelevant. You can have the attitude! THAT is what matters Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hutcho 8,443 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 Won 55 quid at the dog racing. Go me! Barbara and Strike 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbara 15,149 Posted June 21, 2013 Share Posted June 21, 2013 No the boobs are irrelevant. You can have the attitude! THAT is what mattersnah... sexy (and I don't mean the boobs) is a nice trait in a girl. Dominant to the point she spanks her men? Not really, it makes the men very unattractive. Actually beating is so overrated. doing, receiving, it doesn't matter. Dominance is about something else... and so is sensuality.Back to the gif though I'll still keep the boobs. They're very good boobs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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