LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 Shay Given today after the 1minute silence/applause.http://twitpic.com/7kmihzThey were best mates. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Kez 2,727 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Shay Given today after the 1minute silence/applause.http://twitpic.com/7kmihzThey were best mates.Just seen that on sky, he's playing the full game though. Fair play to the man. He must be heartbroken. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 Just seen that on sky, he's playing the full game though. Fair play to the man. He must be heartbroken.Yeah, I can't imagine how he's feeling at the moment while playing.Looks distraught, but mad respect for him carrying on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xPetrCechx 13,571 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 R.I.P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomo 21,751 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 R.I.P Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kez 2,727 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Craig Bellamy has pulled out of the game today due to the news. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 Can't blame him at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OReillyD36 311 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 R.I.P Thoughts are with his family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jusek 2,031 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Another sad loss, R.I.P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
- 25 - 167 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 R.I.P. Just shows, you never know what's going on in people's heads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warnie_666 1,081 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 I dont have sympathy to the ones who commit suicide...Commiserations to his family though!! Feel sad for them...Cant beleive a Legend like him would be so weak.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 I dont have sympathy to the ones who commit suicide...Commiserations to his family though!! Feel sad for them...Cant beleive a Legend like him would be so weak....Suicide isn't a weakness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warnie_666 1,081 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Suicide isn't a weakness.Weak people commit suicide cus thats the easy way out. They dont care how it would affect the people around them.Strong people fight their way out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 Weak people commit suicide cus thats the easy way out. They dont care how it would affect the people around them.Strong people fight their way out of it.People should be allowed to choose when they die.I see nothing wrong with that, nor should it be judged. We do not get to play 'god' on people's lives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warnie_666 1,081 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 People should be allowed to choose when they die.I see nothing wrong with that, nor should it be judged. We do not get to play 'god' on people's lives.Thats true...but dont expect me to have sympathy for people who commit suicide specially ones who have a family.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LDN Blue 7,903 Posted November 27, 2011 Author Share Posted November 27, 2011 Thats true...but dont expect me to have sympathy for people who commit suicide specially ones who have a family....Perhaps it's not as simple as waking up and thinking "let me end my life today". Depression or mental illness is harder than you may appreciate it to be. It doesn't mean they don't care about the effects on their family & friends. It means it's too great for them to control.It is unfair not to express sympathies, when the circumstances are so unclear. Sympathies should be paid out of respect in any case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warnie_666 1,081 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Perhaps it's not as simple as waking up and thinking "let me end my life today". Depression or mental illness is harder than you may appreciate it to be. It doesn't mean they don't care about the effects on their family & friends. It means it's too great for them to control.It is unfair not to express sympathies, when the circumstances are so unclear. Sympathies should be paid out of respect in any case.Tell me about it. I have had people around me who have been through severe depression, and have fought their way out of it. Like in the other thread, I said, these are fighters as opposed to the weak people who just give in and choose the easy way out.How do you know it is not as simple as waking up and thinking "let me end my life today"? Most of the time it is moment of madness. If only at that moment had they decided to fight on for a day more......I know few families who have had a member committing a suicide.....their moms or wives have never been the same...And therefore I have no sympathy to the ones who take their own lives cus they dont care what they are putting their families through.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kieran. 6,317 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 Tell me about it. I have had people around me who have been through severe depression, and have fought their way out of it. Like in the other thread, I said, these are fighters as opposed to the weak people who just give in and choose the easy way out.How do you know it is not as simple as waking up and thinking "let me end my life today"? Most of the time it is moment of madness. If only at that moment had they decided to fight on for a day more......I know few families who have had a member committing a suicide.....their moms or wives have never been the same...And therefore I have no sympathy to the ones who take their own lives cus they dont care what they are putting their families through..I've had depression and know what it's like, so PLEASE stop spouting your ignorance here. It's much harder than you're making it out to be.RIP Gary Speed. A real tragedy. I just watched our title clinching game from 2005, Gary Speed was the captain of Bolton then. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
warnie_666 1,081 Posted November 27, 2011 Share Posted November 27, 2011 I've had depression and know what it's like, so PLEASE stop spouting your ignorance here. It's much harder than you're making it out to be.RIP Gary Speed. A real tragedy. I just watched our title clinching game from 2005, Gary Speed was the captain of Bolton then.Dont tell me what to spout and what not to. Did you have a suicide in your family? Did you lose your best friend who has never been the same cus his dad took his life when we were 10?Ive been through depression too...may not be a severe one. But people close to me have been through severe depression. They have been on pills, have visited therapists. And they have fought their way out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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