I might be gone

[Kojo 4,676]

I thought you already did it

I was about too, but i was really considering my options, like i said i know my parents would find out if that happened because they would have to contact them.

Lucky enough i was able to stay at my mates.

[manpe 10,861]

You will go back home eventually once you run out of those temporary options. Yearning for roof over your head and food on the table will overcome your angst filled sense of stubborn pride. I could be wrong though, I'm thinking what I would do, you could be a totally different character.

[dave30 728]

James mate your teeth are fucking massive, you look like an absolute budgie, i would swing you all over, and you're a faggot.

how do you know he's called james ha ha ?

[Kojo 4,676]

how do you know he's called james ha ha ?

I don't, he just has his name as JamesConolly on OTC forum, he's a first class bell end.

[Kojo 4,676]

You will go back home eventually once you run out of those temporary options. Yearning for roof over your head and food on the table will overcome your angst filled sense of stubborn pride. I could be wrong though, I'm thinking what I would do, you could be a totally different character.

I'm a very stubborn person, but i've never been on the edge i'll admit, thought it would make me sick to go back there, i would never forgive myself for what ever reason.

[Bir_CFC 3,455]

How come you didn't find some kind of a job in the last 2 months you've been homeless? Doesn't it bother you that you spend 2 months in other people's houses and not even secure a job in that time. If you were able to spend 2 months with someone else, you could have saved up some money while working so you could have enough money to at least not be homeless on Tuesday.

Just some tough love. Don't take it the wrong way. I don't claim to know your entire situation, but just some thoughts that popped up in my head.

[dave30 728]

[CHOULO19 24,332]

I'm a very stubborn person, but i've never been on the edge i'll admit, thought it would make me sick to go back there, i would never forgive myself for what ever reason.

I don't usually give advice to people who don't ask for it because I don't like to get involved in others lives. But since this is serious, I hope this piece of advice helps to make the best of the situation, whatever the best may be.

I belive, that in life in general, it's not about stubborness, or priciples, principles are relative and change all the time. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is either trying to brainwash you or he himself has been brainwashed by society. It's all about survival.

[manpe 10,861]

I belive, that in life in general, it's not about stubborness, or priciples, principles are relative and change all the time. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is either trying to brainwash you or he himself has been brainwashed by society. It's all about survival.

This reminded me of Mark Twain's quote: “Principles have no real force except when one is well-fed.”

[Bir_CFC 3,455]

This reminded me of Mark Twain's quote: “Principles have no real force except when one is well-fed.”

My high school principle was really well-fed, he hit like a girl though.

[xPetrCechx 13,570]

Why u left your home?

[Kieran. 6,317]

Sloth, mate, you know you're not going to keep finding places to crash for free. Stay with your parents for a few months, get a job, save up and move out and never talk to them again if you need to.

[Ollie 4,400]

Pretty crazy this really Sloth, there are homeless people around because they are older, maybe have no family in the area, got some drug problem, got themselves in huge debt, maybe both parents are not alive any more or whatever but with you, you're 17 years old, have your parents there and you're actually choosing to be homeless which is silly even if you don't get on with them. If/When i have kids, no matter how much we might get involved in arguments or end up hating each other, i'd never let them go homeless because they are my blood just like your parents are your blood. Out of all the people in the world, the last people you should fall out with are your parents because they will do anything for you. You are only here because of them and they brought you up through childhood and into your later teen years.

Family comes first, family is number 1 before all else, you better make up with your family and you better hurry up doing it because without your family, a job and a home, you're going nowhere fast mate. You're still a young lad, if you want to actually make something of your life, you know what to do. Forget personal feelings or pride, think about what's best for you for now and for the long run. The longer you leave it, the worse you will make it.

Start over and make something out of your life.

[Krypt 241]

Sloth you are in the perfect position to make a change in your life you should take it and move back in with your parents. Me and my dad had issues when I was younger but now I couldn't live without him. Go back and enjoy your life your 17 ffs!

Wait till your 25 like me and have your first mortgage and realise you have no money to enjoy yourself anymore lol.

So the moral of the story is your young so fucking swallow your pride and have a youth of enjoyment! Obviously I don't know what's gone on and wish you all the best as I'm a part time poster you may ignore this. Whatever you choose I hope to see you on here.

[warnie_666 1,081]

Kids with no families yearn for them. Orphans yearn for mom and dad and we have rebel teens leaving their mom and dad cus they said something to their kid in the heat of the moment.

Dont do this dude. You live once, parents are the reason you are here and, if they said something, I am sure they didnt mean it as your mom wants you back.

Forgive and Forget. Everyone deserves a second chance.

[Kojo 4,676]

Okay thanks for the help guys, i don't think i can go back, as sad as it sounds it would make me sick to do that and go back. There's a lot more involved about my parents, i cannot say stuff because they are very personal and couldn't put it on the internet but going back just doesn't feel right. I feel i can do this myself, and i have a point to prove, all my life i have been told how lucky i am and how my parents never had this etc, sometimes i feel i was told this too young, now i can't even accept gifts or money off anyone without me thinking i don't deserve this. I need to prove a point and i'll do it, that's why i cannot go back there, going back there would mean going back to square one. I'll always be depressed about that if i don't take the hard route in life.

How come you didn't find some kind of a job in the last 2 months you've been homeless? Doesn't it bother you that you spend 2 months in other people's houses and not even secure a job in that time. If you were able to spend 2 months with someone else, you could have saved up some money while working so you could have enough money to at least not be homeless on Tuesday.

Just some tough love. Don't take it the wrong way. I don't claim to know your entire situation, but just some thoughts that popped up in my head.

I answered you earlier, but never quoted, this is Middlesbrough i live in, the hardest place in England to find a job. This town is over populated to fuck, and it's very hard to get a job, and with me moving from place to place it isn't helping, i've tried believe me and i have got good grades but it's just impossible to get a job. But i've also ruined it formyself because i didn't apply for them when i needed to, now all the students have took them.

[We Hate Scouse 10,326]

I'm assuming you're an only child?

[Kojo 4,676]

I'm assuming you're an only child?

No i have a younger sister.

[We Hate Scouse 10,326]

No i have a younger sister.

Hard not to make an inappropriate comment................Too young to help?

[Bir_CFC 3,455]

Okay thanks for the help guys, i don't think i can go back, as sad as it sounds it would make me sick to do that and go back. There's a lot more involved about my parents, i cannot say stuff because they are very personal and couldn't put it on the internet but going back just doesn't feel right. I feel i can do this myself, and i have a point to prove, all my life i have been told how lucky i am and how my parents never had this etc, sometimes i feel i was told this too young, now i can't even accept gifts or money off anyone without me thinking i don't deserve this. I need to prove a point and i'll do it, that's why i cannot go back there, going back there would mean going back to square one. I'll always be depressed about that if i don't take the hard route in life.

Fair enough. You seem pretty determined to not go back and if you haven't bothered in 2 months you probably won't go back now. So what's your plan now? It's Tuesday today, where are you spending the night?