I watched the replay, and I must say, I don't think our performance was that bad. Especially in the first half where I thought we some good spells, got into great positions and were unlucky not to score. The second half was a bit more scrappy. Tbf, Sunderland defended very well and with great determination as you would expect in the manager's first game in charge. All in all, it was a crucial three points.
I was too lazy to write it, but I meant something like: Cech, Iva, Cahil, JT, Ferreira, Mikel, Lamps, Hazard, Benayoun, Marin, Torres. That's what I meant by 'similar'.
I like Ross, he seems like a very nice guy who's always joking around. But I also think that my 85yo neighbor is a nice guy, doesn't mean I'd like to see him play in goal for Chelsea!
It is NEVER a good idea to stay friends with your ex. Trust me on this one. It will only lead to awkward moments and mistakes you'll regret later. I learned that the hard way. Just phase her out of your life. Stop taking her calls, show her you're not making any effort to communicate with her and she'll move along. That's would be best for both of you, imo.