I see what you mean, but the truth of the matter is, my feelings for her are massive right now... we've been talking for a year and 7 months on skype and we both feel that the only way to advance is to meet up.. but the problem lies with the fact that Linda can't decide what she wants, and that she's just generally confused about everything. The strange thing, is that all this literally came out of the blue! Everything seemed to be going well... we were looking forward to next month, until she told me about a huge phone bill, which dented her chances of coming to London to see me, and since then, it's been panic stations