The Pub - Discuss Anything

[Liquidator 5,176]

Dont be so hypocrite, I am sure it is better than whatever you had

planed.

What taking her out for dinner like the classy fucker I am?

[Stingray 9,441]

Yeah ok

Actually really.

Take her out to a good - not too expensive - smallish (not too many people) and dark/cosy restaurant (fireplace and candles are a plus). Make her feel lke a lady and then go for a drink. Remain sober at all cost!

Then .... Follow what comes naturally. Trust me.

Also, don't talk about football too much. Listen to her.

[Hutcho 8,443]

Take her to chelsea of course.

[DJames 729]

So I got the job and am starting on friday... nervous as FUCK!!

Congrats! You will be fine

Where should I go on a first date with a girl?

Dinner. A place where you two can talk and get to know each other

Some girls don't do first dates at parks - especially if they don't know the guy that well

Cinema's are fine but generally they don't allow for talking. If you do that follow it up with something else maybe dinner or ice-cream.

The most important thing is using this date to get to know her to see if you want to pursue the relationship further

[DDA 9,924]

Where should I go on a first date with a girl?

You can't beat the Golden Arches mate. Large Big Mac meal with a McFlurry is always a winner.

[SinineUltra 1,170]

What taking her out for dinner like the classy fucker I am?

Girls like to talk, they don't like to listen as much. Feed off her talk, ask questions based on that, if she asks your opinion - do so but nothing too extreme unless it is funny. The less you talk about yourself, the more room there is for her fantasy and if she likes you, she will think good things about you. All about the balance I guess and being a bit mysterious. Every girl is different though. Dinner seems fine, Stingray gave a good summary. Good luck!

[CHOULO19 24,332]

Some girls don't do first dates at parks - especially if they don't know the guy that well

What exactly do you expect them to be doing at the park?!

[DJames 729]

What exactly do you expect them to be doing at the park?!

Walking and talking duh.......then you reach the secluded area..................................and your head ends up on the milk carton

Clarification - in terms of cultural differences maybe a walk in the park is ideal where you are from. Here not many will do that on the first date, some will but a good bit (those I know) wouldn't

Basically, every girl is different so do something that this girl will appreciate

[CHOULO19 24,332]

Walking and talking duh.......then you reach the secluded area..................................and your head ends up on the milk carton

Clarification - in terms of cultural differences maybe a walk in the park is ideal where you are from. Here not many will do that on the first date, some will but a good bit (those I know) wouldn't

Basically, every girl is different so do something that this girl will appreciate

Lol yeah I guess it's just cultural differences or maybe it's just me! Lunch and a walk in the park is my idea of a perfect date. I've done it countless times with my exes, and I must admit we never got past the walking and talking and sitting part! Either our eastern society is very strict, or I'm just finding out that I'm a big coward!

[DJames 729]

Lunch and a walk in the park is my idea of a perfect date.

Your idea.......not necessarily hers'

[Rmpr 8,977]

Lol yeah I guess it's just cultural differences or maybe it's just me! Lunch and a walk in the park is my idea of a perfect date. I've done it countless times with my exes, and I must admit we never got past the walking and talking and sitting part! Either our eastern society is very strict, or I'm just finding out that I'm a big coward!

LOL, I just cant imagine someone choosing a park as their first date!

[Rmpr 8,977]

@Liquidator and @AfricanBlue, you brothers?

*cough* *cough*

[BluesChick 1,260]

Walking and talking duh.......then you reach the secluded area..................................and your head ends up on the milk carton

Clarification - in terms of cultural differences maybe a walk in the park is ideal where you are from. Here not many will do that on the first date, some will but a good bit (those I know) wouldn't

Basically, every girl is different so do something that this girl will appreciate

Lol yeah I guess it's just cultural differences or maybe it's just me! Lunch and a walk in the park is my idea of a perfect date. I've done it countless times with my exes, and I must admit we never got past the walking and talking and sitting part! Either our eastern society is very strict, or I'm just finding out that I'm a big coward!

I think it is a cultural difference and a regional difference. Depends on what you would term a park. One of my favorite afternoon activities is to have lunch with my husband and go for a walk and talk. The nice thing about going for a walk is you aren't trapped a crossed a table and it gives us an excuse to hold hands. we embarrass our kids and occasionally our friends because after 18 years of marriage we still hold hands when we walk or sit at a table in a restaurant.

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[AfricanBlue 104]

@Liquidator and @AfricanBlue, you brothers?

*cough* *cough*

Took me a minute to figure out what you were talking about. I think we both just have great taste in profile pictures.

[AfricanBlue 104]

I think it is a cultural difference and a regional difference. Depends on what you would term a park. One of my favorite afternoon activities is to have lunch with my husband and go for a walk and talk. The nice thing about going for a walk is you aren't trapped a crossed a table and it gives us an excuse to hold hands. we embarrass our kids and occasionally our friends because after 18 years of marriage we still hold hands when we walk or sit at a table in a restaurant.

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I'm kind of walking into the middle of this conversation but while I'm here I'll contribute. I feel like walking in the park would put a lot of pressure on you to carry a conversation since there's not much else going on and if you already went to dinner you may have run out of things to talk about. If the girl is talkative like SinineUltra said it might go alright but if she's shy it could be awkward or at least it would be for me. A movie seems like a good idea, everybody likes movies.