CHOULO19 24,332 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 What I meant is: what makes a person unlovable? Ask Ferdinand, or Yossi! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
whatthemata 249 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Those are the best kind. (Let's see if anyone recognizes this). The Amazing Spider-Man! Dion 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 What I meant is: what makes a person unlovable? I don't know if such a thing does exist. There are all kinds of people in the world, probably there is someone who would find you lovable.I'm not really that wonderful and I'm no Brad Pitt, but I've always had some girls interested in me. If you go out there and interact with people you will find someone sooner or later.Being an extreme narcissist or misanthrope maybe? I don't really know.(Thought I'd throw one of my "It's-Saturday-afternoon-and-my-brain's-still-sleeping" thoughts in ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stingray 9,441 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 You met brazilians before? How were they? I don't know if all of them have really intense anger, I know for sure my mom has. I usually date quieter girls, though.They were awesome !! I trained them in communication skills. Only the girl was in anger management ..... She yelled at me for more then 10 minutes non-stop. Wtf! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Does anyone know any great punk bands? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dion 2,476 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Being an extreme narcissist or misanthrope maybe? I don't really know.(Thought I'd throw one of my "It's-Saturday-afternoon-and-my-brain's-still-sleeping" thoughts in )The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dion 2,476 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 They were awesome !! I trained them in communication skills. Only the girl was in anger management ..... She yelled at me for more then 10 minutes non-stop. Wtf!What do you mean by trainning communication skills? I did some therapy group years ago and the anger release exercise has always been my favourite. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people. http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Does anyone know any great punk bands?What kinda punk? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dion 2,476 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 http://www.publicjournal.org/2009/03/02/narcissism-thrives-in-modern-culture/Narcissists tend to be arrogant and brag about their achievements and stuff. Even if on the inside they may not be confident, it would appear to others as if they were. Or so I guess. @Stingray can provide a better insight on this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 The first case might be a person with whom it would be difficult to mantain a relationship with, certainly not unlovable, though. If anything, that person would be probably very attractive, I don't think you can be narcissist and not self-confident. Confidence is a huge perk of attractiveness. The second case falls in the category of people who won't interact with other people. Oh yes, people can be very narcissistic without having self-confidence. The narcissist is a person preoccupied with themselves and dellusions of granduer and power. They can lie to themselves deluding themselves into believing they are more important, smarter, more attractive then they are. I think you mixing up aspects of Histrionic with Narcisim. A Histrionic person is the type to brag and be arrogant for attention to reinforce their self image, whereas the narcissist just lies to themselves to reinforce their self image. Amblève. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 What kinda punk?Punk that I haven't heard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dion 2,476 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Oh yes, people can be very narcissistic without having self-confidence. The narcissist is a person preoccupied with themselves and dellusions of granduer and power. They can lie to themselves deluding themselves into believing they are more important, smarter, more attractive then they are. I think you mixing up aspects of Histrionic with Narcisim. A Histrionic person is the type to brag and be arrogant for attention to reinforce their self image, whereas the narcissist just lies to themselves to reinforce their self image.But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be.Fucks me. I only came into this conversation halfway through it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Punk that I haven't heard.That's helping a lot...What about the hardcore punk band Counterparts? Ever heard of them?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouyuFIYuopQ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 But for the person watching them from the outside isn't it the same? I know I said self-confidence but for attractiveness it is more like perceived self-confidence. It doesn't matter if you are confident deep down, just as long as you appear to be.But what's gonna happen if you get into a relationship with such a person? He/She won't be able to pretend to be something he/she isn't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 That's helping a lot...What about the hardcore punk band Counterparts? Ever heard of them?Outside of Refused I'm not a big fan of hardcore. I like bands like Bad Religion and NOFX. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dion 2,476 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 But what's gonna happen if you get into a relationship with such a person? He/She won't be able to pretend to be something he/she isn't.That's why mantaining a relationship would be the tough part. But from my experience, it is harder to make a woman be attracted to you than to make them love you afterwards. Once you're really attracted to a person, even his flaws become somewhat charming. A lot of them would be thrilled to try to help you become a better person. I don't know why this happens but women love to change us and feel like they made us become better individuals Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amblève. 4,995 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Outside of Refused I'm not a big fan of hardcore. I like bands like Bad Religion and NOFX.Maybe Minor Threat and Authority Zero? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike 12,049 Posted May 18, 2013 Share Posted May 18, 2013 Maybe Minor Threat and Authority Zero?Never really liked Minor Threat, I've always been of the opinion that Fugazi is superior in every way.Ah, I'll just listen to Milo Goes To College for the 100000000 time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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