Need Help!

[Guest Lampards Bitch]

Ok on sunday i went to my works xmas do. I met a boy (well man) there called Michael. Now i work for Currys and he works for Comet lol so a bit of rivalry there!!!Now he is gorgeous! Makes me laugh alot and we have alot in common and he is 24. unfortunatly supports Arsenal but I'm sure I can scrub round that. He has been textin me and talkin to me on msn and we are going out friday night to the cinema. Now I am scared cause it's been along time since this has happend so has any one got any advice. I really want this to go well!

[Aesthetic Relic 301]

Depends what you mean by wanting it to go well.Personally on a first date I wouldnt expect anything, so therefore wouldnt push it. Just go to the cinema, have a chat afterwards in a pub or somewhere when you can talk instead of sitting in the cinema when you have to be quiet. At the end of the night if things go well, say your goodbyes, kiss on the cheek or whatever and ask him to call/text, etc....If he wants to see you again he'll call, if not he wont. Put the ball in his court and see what happens.

[Elliott 7]

Ok on sunday i went to my works xmas do. I met a boy (well man) there called Michael. Now i work for Currys and he works for Comet lol so a bit of rivalry there!!!Now he is gorgeous! Makes me laugh alot and we have alot in common and he is 24. unfortunatly supports Arsenal but I'm sure I can scrub round that. He has been textin me and talkin to me on msn and we are going out friday night to the cinema. Now I am scared cause it's been along time since this has happend so has any one got any advice. I really want this to go well!

Stop overthinking it!Just enjoy his company, you don't need to do any more than that! Just be yourself.

[EskWeston 696]

No point trying to force anything. Just go and have a good time and see what happens. Best advice to give is to just be relaxed and be yourself, if someone don't like they way you are then it is not worth bothering, because you can't be false forever...

[darren.c 0]

well...i aint no expert but all i can say is just be yourself...if he is interested in you,it means that he is interested in your true self...you dont need to be different or act different or whatever...just go ahead with it...i agree with what Mr. "PRO" Tri-Blue said over there...he sounds like he is the master of it all aint that right Tri-Blue?

Edited December 13, 2007 by darren.c

[Guest Lampards Bitch]

ok thanks guys. he is talkin to me on msn as i type this. he has been textin me all day and i spoke to him on the phone tonight and he is really looking forward to seeing me

[darren.c 0]

well then...i guess there's nothing for you to worry about...i wish you the very best of luck

[Guest Lampards Bitch]

ta muchly. I have to pick him up at 7.30pm as he has sold his car lol

[darren.c 0]

lolz...i still remember my first date though...man.....she was gorgeous...and i was stiff as a wooden log

[Elliott 7]

ta muchly. I have to pick him up at 7.30pm as he has sold his car lol

How emasculating

[Elliott 7]

ta muchly. I have to pick him up at 7.30pm as he has sold his car lol

How emasculating for him

[Steve 10,227]

good luck

[Guest Lampards Bitch]

Hiya all! well........... it went fine! We watched Hitman lol how romantic! well be both wanted to see it! Wasnt that good really, well i didnt think so! He did fall asleep during the film which i found funny so I poked him to wake him up lol! we had a laugh, no awkward silences or nothing! And as soon as I dropped him home he asked me when I was off next and we will be meeting up again monday!His mate has text me today and said he keeps talking about me lolthanks for the advice peeps!xxxx

[Elliott 7]

Cool, great to hear it went well!

[darren.c 0]

woohoo...!!!i'm so happy for you... now you can slowly think back and read your previous post and see how silly you were and maybe have a good laugh about it

[Agent13 0]

glad you had a good time

[Steve 10,227]

good work glad it went well

[Guest Lampards Bitch]

well i havent heard from him directly since friday........................he's not talkin to me on msn or nothing. I know he has no credit. So i dont know what i have done to warrent this