Aah then you should have clicked he second link :-) Also, that psychologist (david Buss) has a free ebook online as well http://ebookbrowse.com/relationships-david-buss-what-women-wants-pdf-d422919482 It sounds popular but the research behind it is cross cultural and really good. Edit: tongue ? We should ask the female members on here actually, but they tend to dissapear when this subject comes up hint hint, ladies!